Have a Nice Day - Some inspirational thoughts

Arrow goes forward only after pulling in to backward.
Bullet goes forward only after pressing the trigger backward.

Every human being will get happy.
Only after facing the difficulties in their life path…

So do not be afraid to face your difficulties.
They will push you forward.

Have a nice day!!!

LESSSON 2 - Mini Memory Course

This is a Memory Lesson that I got through Email from the Memory Master - Nishant Kasibhatla.
Here is the second lesson

Albert Einstein said a long time back "Imagination is more important than knowledge".

Was he right? Of course he is right!

The point to note is the word "more" in his statement. That means knowledge is important. But imagination is more important.

I will go a step ahead and say that "organized knowledge" is ESSENTIAL to excel in any skill.

Here I am talking about knowledge of memory techniques.

Question: Did your schoolteachers give you the knowledge of
"how to memorise"?
Answer:???????

?????????

Think about it. A majority of schools in the world do not teach any memory techniques or strategies for children. As a result of which, the student has to devise his own ways of memorising information and usually end up acquiring one
particular way of memorising information.

And that is REPETITION.

Right from the student stage to the adult stage, many people slog to learn information in the wrong ways.

OK, WHAT IS THE RIGHT WAY OF MEMORISING?
Simple. Pay Attention!

That's right. The easiest way to memorise information is to pay attention. This appears so simple, but it is alarming to note that many people don't even have a slightest clue of how to pay attention.

The 3 easiest ways to pay attention:

1.Visualise:

Try to convert the information you want to memorise into pictures. This very process forces attention. Also, the time taken to memorise will be reduced drastically.

2.Association:

This is so important that I have created another section for it and will explain about the power of association in my next email.

3.Fun:

Try to search ways and means with the help of which you can have fun while memorising. I know this sounds difficult. Most people associate learning and memorising with stress. The more you do this, the more stress you will continue to
have while memorising. Think different. Try to have fun.

But as I have told you earlier, just the knowledge about this doesn't help much. You need to take action. From now on, answer the following 3 magic questions whenever you want to memorise any information.

3 MAGIC QUESTIONS

1.How can I Visualise this information?

2.How can I associate this information with something I
already know?

3.How can I have fun while memorising?

What if you could not answer some of the above questions? It still works! By just TRYING to answer the above 3 questions, you are thinking about the information in a way you never did before. You literally force all of your attention on the
information. This is so simple and effective.

Try it today and you are bound to get the results.

Wishing you a great memory!

Yours memorably,
Nishant Kasibhatla
Grand Master of Memory

LESSSON 1 - Mini Memory Course

This is a Memory Lesson that I got through Email from the Memory Master - Nishant Kasibhatla.

Few days back, I attended a birthday party of one of my friends. There, he introduced me to a director of a large Multinational Company. After the initial small talk, I told about my Memory training programmes and he got interested in them. He ran out of his business cards and asked me to "note down" his telephone number. Please pay attention to the dialogue between us. This will give you a clue to the "main culprit" for having a bad memory.

Director: Why don't you note down my number.

Me: It's ok. You tell me the number. I will memorise it.

Director: Are you sure, you can remember? Why do you take risk? Why don't you write it down?

Me: Hey, I can do it. I am a Grand Master of Memory. Remembering a 10-digit number is too easy for me.

Director: oh is it? Congrats. But I want to play safe.

AND HE ACTUALLY BORROWED A PIECE OF PAPER FROM SOMEONE, WROTE DOWN HIS NAME AND HIS TELEPHONE NUMBER AND PUT THE PAPER IN MY POCKET!

He badly needed my memory training, and later his company became one of my clients.

Well, what surprised me is his firm belief that I can't remember the number, in spite of telling him that I am a memory expert. Why is this?

This guy is not even happy with the belief I have in my memory. Think about his belief in his own memory. Isn't it amazing?

The No. 1 culprit, which is a stumbling block for anyone's memory improvement is this:

LACK OF BELIEF.

Most people don't believe in their existing memory capacity. There are many reasons why this happens.

1.You might have tried a variety of ways to learn new information, but nothing worked.

2.Listening and believing in "anti-memory-power" statements like "Write it down, otherwise you will never memorise it"

3.Feeling de-motivated and cursing your memory even for minor memory lapses.

4.Telling everyone "you have a bad memory" (and sometimes feeling proud for saying that!)

5.etc

Was I exaggerating? You now that I was not. And if you did not fall into any of the above categories, then the only thing I can say about you is:

Lucky You!

But for a majority of people, this is the reality. If you want to improve your memory, you must first have a belief in your memory. How?

follow this simple tip:

Treat your memory power as your good friend.

Will it be OK for you to belittle your good friend by talking
bad about him/her?

Will it be OK for you if someone else talks bad about your
good friend?

Would you say encouraging or discouraging words to your
good friend?

Answer the above questions and you are on your way to a
great start.

More info in my next mail.

Wish you a great memory!

Nishant Kasibhatla
Grand Master of Memory

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IMPORTANCE OF ATTITUDE

Building a positive attitude

There was a man who made a living selling balloons at a fair. He had all colors of
balloons, including red, yellow, blue, and green. Whenever business was slow, he would release a helium-filled balloon into the air and when the children saw it go up, they all wanted to buy one. They would come up to him, buy a balloon, and his sales would go up again. He continued this process all day. One day, he felt someone tugging at his jacket. He turned around and saw a little boy who asked, "If you release a black balloon, would that also fly?" Moved by the boy's concern, the man replied with empathy, "Son, it is not the color of the balloon, it is what is inside that makes it go up."

The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is inside that counts. The thing inside of us that makes us go up is our attitude. Have you ever wondered why some individuals, organizations, or countries are more successful than others?
It is not a secret. These people simply think and act more effectively. They have learned how to do so by investing in the most valuable asset--people. I believe that the success of an individual, organization or country, depends on the quality of their people. I have spoken to executives in major corporations all over the world and asked one question: "If you had a magic wand and there was one thing you would want changed, that would give you a cutting edge in the marketplace resulting in increased productivity and profits, what would that be?" The answer was unanimous. They all said that if people had better attitudes, they'd be better team players, and it'd cut down waste, improve loyalty and, in general, make their company a great place to work. William James of Harvard University said, "The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind." Experience has shown that human resources is the most valuable asset of any business. It is more valuable than capital or equipment. Unfortunately, it is also the most wasted. People can be your biggest asset or your biggest liability.

The Calgary Tower stands at 190.8 meters. The total weight of the tower is 10,884 tons, of which 6,349 tons is below ground (approximately 60%). This shows that some of the greatest buildings have the strongest foundations. Just like a great building stands on a strong foundation, so does success. And the foundation of success is attitude.

YOUR ATTITUDE CONTRIBUTES TO SUCCESS

A study attributed to Harvard University found that when a person gets a job, 85% of the time it is because of their attitude, and only 15% of the time because of how smart they are and how many facts and figures they know. Surprisingly, almost 100% of education dollars go to teach facts and figures which account for only 15% of success in work! This book is all about that 85% of success. Attitude is the most important word in the English language. It applies to every sphere of life, including one's personal and professional life. Can an executive be a good executive without a good attitude? Can a student be a good student without a good attitude? Can a parent, teacher, salesman, employer, employee be good in their roles without a good attitude? The foundation of success regardless of your chosen field, is attitude. If attitude is such a critical factor in success, shouldn't you examine your attitude toward life and ask how your attitude will affect your goals?


Don't Forget that ATTITUDE can give you a 100 points when you put the value for each letters as A=1, B=2, C=2 and so on

A + T + T + I + T + U + D + E = 1 + 20 + 20 + 9 + 20 + 21 + 4 + 5 = 100

So Be with a Positive Attitude. :-)

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Power of Positive Talk

Dear All,

Presenting the power of positive talk from Mr.Abdul Kalam. Read through in detail and you will understand the importance of making positive statements.

Cheers...........

Power of Positive Talk

I remember my dad teaching me the power of language at a very young age. Not only did my dad understand that specific words affect our mental pictures, but he understood words are a powerful programming factor in lifelong success.

One particularly interesting event occurred when I was eight. As a kid, I was always climbing trees, poles, and literally hanging around upside down from the rafters of our lake house. So, it came to no surprise for my dad to find me at the top of a 30-foot tree swinging back and forth. My little eight-year-old brain didn't realize the tree could break or I could get hurt. I just thought it was fun to be up so high.

My older cousin, Tammy, was also in the same tree. She was hanging on the first big limb, about ten feet below me. Tammy's mother also noticed us at the exact time my dad did. About that time a huge gust of wind came over the tree. I could hear the leaves start to rattle and the tree begin to sway. I remember my dad's voice over the wind yell, "Bart, Hold on tightly." So I did. The next thing I know, I heard Tammy screaming at the top of her lungs, laying flat on the ground. She had fallen out of the tree.

I scampered down the tree to safety. My dad later told me why she fell and I did not. Apparently, when Tammy's mother felt the gust of wind, she yelled out, "Tammy, don't fall!" And Tammy did fall.

My dad then explained to me that the mind has a very difficult time processing a negative image. In fact, people who rely on internal pictures cannot see a negative at all. In order for Tammy to process the command of not falling, her nine-year-old brain had to first imagine falling, then try to tell the brain not to do what it just imagined. Whereas, my eight-year-old brain instantly had an internal image of me hanging on tightly.

This concept is especially useful when you are attempting to break a habit or set a goal. You can't visualize not doing something. The only way to properly visualize not doing something is to actually find a word for what you want to do and visualize that. For example, when I was thirteen years old, I played for my junior high school football team. I tried so hard to be good, but I just couldn't get it together at that age. I remember hearing the words run through my head as I was running out for a pass, "Don't drop it!" Naturally, I dropped the ball.

My coaches were not skilled enough to teach us proper "self-talk." They just thought some kids could catch and others couldn't. I'll never make it pro, but I'm now a pretty good Sunday afternoon football player, because all my internal dialogue is positive and encourages me to win. I wish my dad had coached me playing football instead of just climbing trees. I might have had a longer football career.

Here is a very easy demonstration to teach your kids and your friends the power of a toxic vocabulary. Ask them to hold a pen or pencil. Hand it to them. Now, follow my instructions carefully. Say to them, "Okay, try to drop the pencil." Observe what they do.

Most people release their hands and watch the pencil hit the floor. You respond, "You weren't paying attention. I said TRY to drop the pencil. Now please do it again." Most people then pick up the pencil and pretend to be in excruciating pain while their hand tries but fails to drop the pencil.

The point is made.

If you tell your brain you will "give it a try," you are actually telling your brain to fail. I have a "no try" rule in my house and with everyone I interact with. Either people will do it or they won't. Either they will be at the party or they won't. I'm brutal when people attempt to lie to me by using the word try. Do they think I don't know they are really telegraphing to the world they have no intention of doing it but they want me to give them brownie points for pretended effort? You will never hear the words "I'll try" come out of my mouth unless I'm teaching this concept in a seminar.

If you "try" and do something, your unconscious mind has permission not to succeed. If I truly can't make a decision I will tell the truth. "Sorry John. I'm not sure if I will be at your party or not. I've got an outstanding commitment. If that falls through, I will be here. Otherwise, I will not. Thanks for the invite."

People respect honesty. So remove the word "try" from your vocabulary.

My dad also told me that psychologists claim it takes seventeen positive statements to offset one negative statement. I have no idea if it is true, but the logic holds true. It might take up to seventeen compliments to offset the emotional damage of one harsh criticism.

These are concepts that are especially useful when raising children.

Ask yourself how many compliments you give yourself daily versus how many criticisms. Heck, I know you are talking to yourself all day long. We all have internal voices that give us direction.

So, are you giving yourself the 17:1 ratio or are you shortchanging yourself with toxic self-talk like, " I'm fat. Nobody will like me. I'll try this diet. I'm not good enough. I'm so stupid. I'm broke, etc. etc."

If our parents can set a lifetime of programming with one wrong statement, imagine the kind of programming you are doing on a daily basis with your own internal dialogue. Here is a list of Toxic Vocabulary words.

Notice when you or other people use them.

X But: Negates any words that are stated before it.
X Try: Presupposes failure.
X If: Presupposes that you may not.
X Might: It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener.
X Would Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen.
X Should Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen (and implies guilt.)
X Could Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn't actually happen but the person tries to take credit as if it did happen.
X Can't/Don't: These words force the listener to focus on exactly the opposite of what you want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing the damage of this linguistic error.

Examples:
Toxic phrase: "Don't drop the ball!"
Likely result: Drops the ball
Better language: "Catch the ball!"

Toxic phrase: "You shouldn't watch so much television."
Likely result: Watches more television.
Better language: "I read too much television makes people stupid. You might find yourself turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!"

I will not say i failed 1000 times, i will say i discovered there are 1000 ways that cause failure.